sad in the sack

so the experience of being off the pill but not ready to try means the use of barrier method bc. this is a drag because the diaphram isn't working for my hubby (makes him very uncomfortable during). we are gonna use the sponge which i love (how can we forget the great episode of seinfeld where elaine freaks out because her sponge is discontinued) but it's very expensive. like 5 bucks each one. yikes. it's kind of a drag because for at least the next 5 years this will probably be our only form of bc. I will go back on the pill after  
we have baby number two but not before since A) you can't be on it while breastfeeding and B) it can take up to a year to have regular cycles after taking it. oh well. hopefully we can make it fun again. i wish hubby was cool with charting and only using during my fertile window but naturally he worries we will screw things up and end up with an unplanned little one. oh well. we may go a little broker for it but the sponge is at least comfortable and hormone free. plus maybe this will make it even more fun and special when we start trying and get to have at it like cave people or bunny rabbits.